We have a tendency to form opinions and judgments really quickly. We often form opinions about people we haven’t even met before. One small mistake and we are forming our opinion about them. We then carry this opinion of them throughout and even pass it on to others. But, one thing that we need to understand is that we should not judge people so easily. We never know what that person is going through and the reason behind their behavior.
Someone who maybe talks too much does so because they have no one to talk to at home. Maybe the girl who you called fat is struggling with body image issues and is trying to starve herself. The Instagram model that you follow and adore might just not be the kind of person you thought she was. Our problem is that we judge too much too soon. You can only know a person once you have interacted with them on a personal level and seen them through the ups and downs of life. As the saying goes, you can truly learn about a person after going for a mile in their shoe.
It is important to create an environment full of love and understanding, especially during the times that we are going through. Everyone is struggling in one way or the other and we will all come out of it stronger if we are together. This will be possible if we support each other and are kind. So please don’t judge people and help out whoever you can in whatever way possible.